It’s a Man’s World, Even in Death: Mary Ann Weems, Murdered and Remembered at The Hands of Her Husband

“As a warning to the Young of both Sexes This Stone is erected by public Subscription.” These words greet passersby in Godmanchester’s St. Mary the Virgin Church. The gargantuan headstone above Mary Ann Weems’ grave serves not only as a memorial of her 1819 murder, but also invites a troubling tarnish of her identity. Her story has stood in this cemetery for centuries, visible to onlookers. Unlike other headstones, her role as the victim, murdered, perhaps even blamed, is attributed to her memory. Mary Ann arguably cannot rest in peace. The events of her life and death are brought up each time her final resting place is passed. Unlike other headstones in this cemetery, her life is memorialised, made permanent, in this stone. A community decision to immortalise this event is crucial for examining the involvement of gendered expectations being perpetuated even in death. Murder is brutal. It is the action of intentionally taking away the life of another human. Thomas Weems, her h...